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How One Client Found Stability, Sobriety, and a New Beginning

When Alex first walked through the doors of a John Howard Society office, he carried everything he owned in a single backpack. He had been sleeping in shelters or outside for several months, most nights unsure where he would end up. Substance use had become his way of coping with years of instability, and it had slowly taken over every part of his life. He knew he needed support, but he did not know how to begin.

John Howard staff listened to his story without judgement. They focused on his goals and what he felt ready to work on. For Alex, the first step was simple and urgent. He needed a safe place to stay.

Building Stability Through Housing Support

Housing workers helped Alex secure temporary shelter and then worked with him to transition into supportive housing. Having a stable place to sleep each night changed everything. He no longer faced the stress of wondering where he would eat or stay. For the first time in a long time, he felt a sense of safety.

With housing in place, Alex could think about the future. He began setting small, realistic goals. John Howard staff celebrated each achievement with him, which helped rebuild his confidence.

Addressing the Roots of Substance Use

Once Alex had a steady roof over his head, he felt ready to look at the reasons he had turned to substances. John Howard staff connected him to counselling that focused on trauma, mental health, and addiction. He learned how old patterns of coping had shaped his life, and he explored healthier ways to manage stress and emotions.

He also joined group meetings where he met people who understood his experiences. Peer support became an important part of his recovery. Hearing others talk about their challenges and successes helped him feel less alone. Over time, these relationships gave him strength when he felt vulnerable.

Growing Skills and Rebuilding a Sense of Purpose

As Alex built momentum, he worked with employment and life-skills staff to set new goals. He updated his resume, practiced interview skills, and learned how to manage daily routines like budgeting and cooking. The structure helped him stay focused, and each new skill became a sign that he was rebuilding his life.

He eventually secured part-time work. It was the first job he had held in years, and it gave him a sense of purpose. He woke up with direction. He felt grounded by routine. Most importantly, he felt proud of himself.

Living a Life Beyond Survival

Today, Alex has been sober for more than a year. He lives in stable housing. He continues counselling and stays connected to peers who support his recovery. Life is no longer about surviving the day. He makes plans, sets goals, and looks ahead with hope.

He often says that the turning point was not a single moment. It was the combination of steady support, practical help, and a belief that he deserved another chance. The John Howard Society walked beside him through each stage of his recovery. Housing gave him stability. Counselling helped him understand himself. Community support helped him stay on track. Together these pieces allowed him to build a life that once felt out of reach.

A Reminder of What is Possible

Alex’s story is one of many. People arrive at John Howard facing different challenges, but they share a common desire for change. With support that sees the whole person, recovery and stability become possible. The journey is not always easy, but each step forward is a victory.

Stories like this remind us that no one is defined by their hardest moments. With compassion, connection, and practical support, people can rebuild their lives and create a future filled with dignity, belonging, and hope.

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The author is a communications contributor with the John Howard Society of British Columbia who focuses on storytelling, community engagement, and promoting awareness of programs that support justice, inclusion, and wellbeing across the province. Their work highlights the experiences of individuals and communities who are building stability, resilience, and hope through JHS services and partnerships.